Pastel pink and blue are lovely, but they aren’t the only choice. A black and white baby shower feels fresh, modern and elegant, and it works for a girl, a boy or a surprise. Here is how to pull one together.
Start with the invitation
Your invitation sets the style for the whole party. A black and white floral design feels soft and romantic, while clean type and simple shapes feel modern. Our Black & White Orchids Baby Shower collection combines both, with delicate orchid stems and “Oh Baby” or “Baby in Bloom” lettering.
Send invitations so guests receive them four to six weeks before the shower.
Decor ideas
- White flowers. Orchids, roses, ranunculus and baby’s breath in clear glass vases.
- Black and white balloons. A simple garland in black, white and clear looks striking.
- Greenery. A little eucalyptus or olive softens the contrast.
- Natural textures. Linen tablecloths, woven baskets and wooden boards add warmth.
- A welcome sign. Match it to your invitation so guests know they are in the right place.
A touch of color
If you want a hint of color, choose one accent and use it lightly. Blush, sage, soft gold or warm beige all look beautiful with black and white. Add it through ribbon, napkins, flowers or the cake.
Food and drinks
Black and white makes food look beautiful. Try:
- Chocolate-dipped strawberries
- Black and white cookies
- A simple white cake with fresh flowers
- Tea sandwiches on a marble board
- Sparkling lemonade with a signature drink sign
Games and activities
- Baby bingo for guests to play while gifts are opened
- Advice cards for the parents-to-be
- Predictions cards for the baby’s birthday, weight and first word
- A diaper raffle, where guests who bring a pack of diapers get a ticket for a prize
Printed game cards in the same design as your invitation keep the look consistent.
Favors
Small, simple favors work best. Think mini honey jars, candles, seed packets or cookies, each with a matching favor tag or sticker.
Photos
Black and white decor looks stunning in photos. Set up a small backdrop with flowers and a sign, and ask a friend to take photos of the parents-to-be and their guests.
After the shower
Send thank-you cards within a few weeks of the shower. Matching cards make it easy and give the whole celebration a finished feel.
Why it works
A black and white shower looks elegant and grown-up, but it is still full of joy. It photographs beautifully, suits any season and works for every baby. And if the parents-to-be love the look, they can carry it into the nursery with matching prints and decor.
If you are also planning a wedding in the family, our Black & White Orchids wedding suite uses the same orchids, so the celebrations can match.