Guests want to dress the part, and a clear dress code helps them do it. Here is what each common dress code means and how to word it on your stationery.
Where does the dress code go?
Put the dress code on your details card or wedding website. On a very formal invitation, "Black Tie" can appear in the lower right corner.
The most common dress codes
White tie. The most formal option. Tailcoats and floor-length gowns. It's rare, so only use it if you truly mean it.
Black tie. Tuxedos and formal gowns or very elegant cocktail dresses. Common for evening weddings and luxury venues.
Black tie optional. Tuxedos are welcome, but dark suits are fine. Long dresses or elegant cocktail dresses.
Formal. Dark suits and ties, gowns or dressy cocktail dresses.
Cocktail. Suits, with or without a tie, and knee-length or midi dresses. This is the most common dress code for weddings today.
Semi-formal or dressy casual. Slacks and a blazer, sundresses or dressy separates.
Casual. Comfortable, neat clothing. Best for backyard or beach weddings, and still worth a gentle note so guests don't arrive in jeans if you'd rather they didn't.
Wording examples
- Black tie
- Black tie optional
- Cocktail attire
- Garden party attire: think florals, sundresses and comfortable shoes
- Festive winter attire: velvet and sparkle encouraged
Add helpful details
If your venue affects what guests should wear, say so:
- The ceremony will be held on the lawn. Block heels are recommended.
- Our reception is outdoors, so please bring a warm layer.
Color requests
If you'd love guests to wear certain colors, it's fine to ask kindly: We'd love to see you in jewel tones. Avoid strict rules unless they really matter to you.
Match the tone to your stationery
A dramatic suite like our Gothic Christmas Black & White collection suggests an elegant evening. A bright wildflower suite suggests something more relaxed. Your invitation design and dress code should tell the same story.
Dress codes for themed and seasonal weddings
If your wedding has a theme or a strong seasonal feel, a creative dress code can be fun:
- Winter formal: velvet, sparkle and warm layers welcome
- Summer garden chic: light fabrics and flat shoes for the lawn
- Mountain casual: dressy but comfortable for an outdoor ceremony
Pair a creative dress code with a short explanation so guests aren't left guessing. When in doubt, a simple, familiar term like "cocktail attire" is always clear.
Should you include a dress code at all?
Not every wedding needs one, but most guests appreciate the guidance. If you leave it off, guests usually assume cocktail attire for an evening wedding and semi-formal for a daytime one.
The bottom line
Choose one clear dress code, put it on your details card or website, and add a friendly note if your venue needs it. For the rest of your wording, see our guide to wedding invitation wording.
