Guests want to give you something you'll love, and a registry helps them do it. The trick is sharing it in a way that feels gracious rather than like a shopping list. Here is how.
Don't put your registry on the invitation
The invitation is about inviting guests to celebrate with you. Registry details belong on your wedding website. A small wedding website card in the envelope points guests there without mentioning gifts directly.
Where it's fine to share
- Your wedding website. The main place for registry links.
- Bridal shower invitations. Since showers are about gifts, registry details can go on a small insert card.
- Word of mouth. Parents and the wedding party can share it when asked.
When to create your registry
Set up your registry around the time you send save the dates. Guests often buy engagement or shower gifts early, so having it ready helps.
How many items to register for
A good rule is two to three gifts per guest, across a range of prices. Include some smaller items so every guest has an option that suits their budget.
Cash funds and honeymoon funds
Cash funds are common and perfectly acceptable. Word them warmly on your website:
Your presence is the greatest gift. If you'd like to celebrate with a gift, a contribution toward our honeymoon in Italy would be so appreciated.
Wording for your website
- We're so grateful for your love and support. For those who have asked, we've registered at the stores below.
- Having you with us is more than enough. If you wish to give a gift, you'll find our registry here.
Keep track of gifts
Note every gift and who sent it as soon as it arrives. It makes thank-you notes much easier. Send thank-you cards within three months of the wedding, or within two weeks for gifts received beforehand.
Thank-you cards that match
Matching thank-you cards are a lovely final touch. Our Winter Wonderland White Floral suite and Black & White Orchids suite both include thank-you cards in the same design as the invitation.
Registry tips that guests appreciate
- Register at two or three places, including at least one store guests can visit in person.
- Include a range of prices, from under $25 to larger group gifts.
- Keep it updated. Add items as popular ones are purchased.
- Think beyond the kitchen. Experiences, home decor, outdoor gear and charity donations are all popular.
Gifts that arrive without a registry
Some guests prefer to choose their own gift or give a card. Every gift deserves the same warm thank-you note, whether it came from your registry or not.
The bottom line
Keep the invitation about the celebration, put your registry on your website, and thank every guest promptly. For thank-you wording ideas, read our guide to wedding thank-you cards.